Which of these two positions are you currently in:

A) Your girlfriend dumped you and you've had no contact with her.

B) She dumped you, but all post-breakup contact has been initiated by you.

No Contact With Ex

Both situations might seem hopeless. Like your ex is over you, and she's already moved on. In truth however, there's always a way back into the heart of ANYONE... as long as you know exactly where to look.

In walking the path that leads back into your ex's arms, you have to tread very carefully. Because in most cases? You really only get one shot.

Knowing which moves to execute first is a vital part of setting any future stage for reconciliation. And it's not just about acting fast, it's about acting correctly.

Reasons Your Ex Hasn't Talked to You

Women are emotional creatures. When you dated her, your girlfriend felt some very powerful emotional connections to you.

These were built up over time. They started in the beginning, during the honeymoon portion of you relationship when everything was absolutely amazing. They continued on during the courtship, throughout all the things you did and the places you went. The more you shared with her, the closer you became. And the stronger these connections between you grew.

Now, just because she broke up with you? Those connections are still there. It's not like they can disappear overnight, and your girlfriend isn't some kind of emotional wizard who can flip those feelings the 'off' position like a light switch.

No, to move on, your ex did the only thing she could: she buried those feelings. She buried them fast. She tried to bury them deep, too, but chances are she didn't do such a good job of it.

And this, my friend is why you have no contact with your ex right now. Your ex girlfriend is afraid of contact. Because in seeing or talking to you? There's a good chance those feelings will shake themselves loose and float right back to the surface.

Your Girlfriend Wants the Breakup to 'Stick'

Every breakup has the potential for reconciliation. All it takes is a few lingering doubts, and your ex can just change her mind. Right now though, she's convinced herself that this isn't what she wants. No matter how her heart might feel, her brain has snowed her into thinking this is "the best thing for her right now."

To get back with her, you'll need to convince both her heart AND her brain. This is where most guys go wrong. They believe that by appealing to her heart; by bringing up past history and by reminding their ex girlfriends about how awesome things 'used to be', they think they're changing their minds.

In reality, their preaching to the one place they don't need to: the heart. To get her to change her mind, you need to appeal to her MIND. To turn things around, you need to make dating you again seem like the logical choice to her.

And the words "to her" are important. If you want a new and lasting relationship, you can't beg or plead your way back in. Pity is bullshit. It never works. Your girlfriend already knows that you want her back. But to really make things work? She has to think getting back together was HER idea.

This is where counter-rejection techniques come in. The idea here is to turn your ex's way of looking at you completely around, to the point where she not only wants you back, but is actually worried that you'll TAKE her back.

Breaking Contact to Get Her Back

A huge part of the counter-rejection process is the NO CONTACT RULE. All lot of people have heard this term, but few understand how it really works.

In short, it feels counter-productive to ignore the person you love. You'd think that if you want your girlfriend back, you should keep the lines of communication as completely open as possible. All communication would be good communication ; texts, emails, Facebook, Instagram... whatever it takes to say in touch.

But the honest truth? The more your ex hears from you, the less she NEEDS to hear from you. In other words, the more you keep contacting the girl who broke up with you (even innocently)? The further you're actually pushing her away.

Getting Your Ex to Miss You

Ever miss someone? I mean really, really miss them to the point where your stomach feels weird and there's an ache in the pit of your heart?

Why did you miss them? There's really only one reason:

It's because they were gone.

When someone is totally and completely gone, that's when you'll miss them the most. I'm talking no texts, no phone calls, no contact whatsoever. When someone you love - or even once loved - disappears off the face of the planet, you're suddenly thinking about them again. And the more distant they get (or the more they ignore you)? The more you are actually forced to miss them.

This is the basis of no-contact; getting your ex to wonder where you went. Believe me, she's looking back at you after the breakup to see how you're doing. She could be talking to friends, checking mutual friends' Facebook pages, or even sending you a text or two to say "what's up". But all that scrutiny isn't innocent. It's for a specific purpose.

See, your exgirlfriend WANTS to see you sad. She WANTS to see you miserable and upset. The harder you're taking the break up? The better she feelts. The more you chase her? The bigger you've inflated her ego.

Of course, the reverse is also true. And this is the principal by which you'll use no contact to get your ex interested in you again.

The Last Step: Make Her Want You Back

So how long do you go no contact? Excellent question.

Depending on which step you are on in the getting-her-back process, you'll want to wait a certain number of days - and even weeks - before reinserting yourself in her life again.

Of course, the ultimate goal is to get your ex to call you. There are tricks to do this as well, and they're not nearly as complicated as you might think.

No matter how long its been since she broke up with you, no matter what kind of contact you still have, Magic will help.

Let relationship expert T.W. Jackson teach you EXACTLY what to do and say after your girlfriend breaks up with you.

Not only will he guide you by the hand through this fully-guaranteed step-by-step plan, but he'll also teach you tips and tricks necessary for keeping your relationship healthy and happy once you DO get back together with your ex.

Which RED FLAG Situation Are You In?


Ex Factor Guide

Review of The Month!
July 2022

Magic of Making Up

Magic of Making Up
Stop Begging
End The Rejection
Get Her Attention
Know Exactly What To Say To Her
Make Your Ex Want You Back!

Learn why MAGIC is considered the most successful break up resource on the internet!
Read Our Review

Last Month's Featured Review:

Get Her Back For Good

Get Her Back For Good
Ex Girlfriend Not Speaking To You?
Becoming Distant or Withdrawn?
Is Your Ex Dating Someone Else?

Tailored to fit your own relationship situation, learn shortcut strategies to winning her back by drawing out your ex's true feelings for you.

Find out what GET HER BACK can do for you: Read Our Review

Our Great Relationship Resources:

Breakup Reversed

Reverse Your Breakup
Learn Instant Reconnection Methods
Find Out The Real Reason She Left
Make Your Ex Reverse Her Own Thinking
Guaranteed to Get Your Ex Back!

This audio guide has helped thousands of couples repair their relationships!

Read Our Review
and check out the many glowing testimonials:

Fix Your Break Up "I was doing the exact opposite of what you suggested and it was getting me nowhere. Thanks again!"
Frank Van Rhe, Lewiston Idaho
Repair Your Break Up "She wasn't even returning my calls, so I took a chance on your book. I still can't believe how incredibly it worked! This is the best book on repairing a breakup you will ever find."
Arnold Mason, Toronto Ontario
Win Ex Back "I tried your Instant Reconnection Technique on my ex girlfriend and it worked like a charm. It was like all of the past had immediately been erased."
Samel Ortega, Eugene Oregon

Reverse The Way Your Exgirlfriend Is Thinking:

Pull Your Ex Back

Pull Your Ex Back
Turning The Tables on Your Exgirlfriend
Putting Yourself Back In Control of The Breakup Situation
Getting Your Ex To Initiate Contact
Tricks Guaranteed To Get Your Ex To Chase You!

From The Ex Girlfriend Guru Matt Huston:

The Ex2 System

Exgirlfriend Guru "The Train Your Ex Girlfriend Manual was the most 'aha' moment I've had in years! She came right back to me, crying!"
Jason E. Hutchison
Exgirlfriend Guru "She came back to me a few weeks later, and she was the one who brought up going back out. Thanks Matt!"
Brian F. Leudy